My husband confess to me that he went to a strip club a few months ago,?

You need counseling. This isnt a question that can be answered here. You have a child together, and you are also both very young. I would suggest professional counseling for the both of you. You can even find some that are low or no cost, in your area. You cannot analyze this and try to solve this problem in your marriage on your own. You just cannot. You need professional counseling for help.